Love yourself part duex

In continuation to yesterdays post, one friend remarked that loving
yourself is accepting and loving yourself for who you are, as you are
( whatever that may be) Now this is where it becomes miserable? Isn’t it?

If I need to accept myself for what Iam? What I am is the key
question? What am I? Pls, how do i find this, so I can accept and
respect and love myself. I am a unique and weird person, there is no one like me, and there is
no one who is going to be like me till I am alive is what I think!!!

I guess, respecting the fact that you are unique and don’t fit in is
kind of very difficult, all our(my) efforts are to fit in the society.
Yet your mind screams you are so different!!!’ I want to emulate the successful neighbor who vacations abroad every year.

At the same the other part of me, hates the idea of vacations, I feel
with so many poor people whatever excess money one has, one should
distribute it. So am I what I think i am? if my idea of what I am is constantly
changing, does this mean I have to fall in love with myself every
moment to moment to love myself?

I know the discussion has taken a different turn, till yesterday it
was all about how to please yourself, or do what makes u happy, that
was easier, but today it is about loving yourself for what you are?
And nobody here knows what or who they are? There needs to be a simple explanation?