Relationships - ARTICULATION

Removing the Heart Chakra Block

I grew up in what is called a broken family. A broken family is where communication is blocked or if they (parents) tried to communicate, they did it by shouting and screaming and sometimes physically abusing each other. As a young child looking at my parents in a physical scuffle

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For Singles Only - How to find the right life-partner.

There are chances that you have missed the bus, or maybe you got on the wrong marriage bus. Happens, it happened to me, quite a few times, that’s the reason I don’t understand people who marry their childhood sweethearts. I mean youth is all about trial and

About me

The Importance of Authority Figures

I have a problem with Authority. I have serious issues with authority figures like Dad, Bosses, More succesful Dickheads, and alpha males. Why do I have a problem with Authority I loved my dad, but he was someone who would say “No” to any thing i really wanted to have.

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How to become a better Listener

I have a ringing sound in my ear. It is very irritating, it is like your mom or wife constantly trying to tell you something. The ENT doctor says, my ear canal is blocked because of the cold. It is the most ridiculous health issue, but I had worst, so

Childhood

Why I choose fun over connections.

I feel all doors are closing or more like the ceiling is going to collapse. Can one open doors without experimenting with Psychedelic substances? Health issues, financial problems and no relationships, yes this couldn’t look worse. But in spite of all this, I manage to have a lot

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A smile to the rescue.

When two ego’s collide, there is bound be destruction. Inspire of having the best of intentions for each other, we may end up seeing the end of relationships. In our overwhelming need to always be right, we might do a wrong to a precious friendship or a relationship.

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Inverting the Institution of Marriage to Eliminate INEQUALITY

I deal with the middle class. I mean I run online communities, where the people who consume content are the middle class. This has given me no choice but to study this class for their behaviours and biases. I am not an expert so my knowledge is made of lot

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My words don’t need you any more

My words don’t need you anymore They have moved on to a better place. A place that doesn’t want anything from you. My words now don’t want to be heard. They are comfortable in their own skin. They are there for no reason. They just flow like

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Publicly grieving for my father’s deaths

I got a call, it must have been 2 am or later. “Daddy passed away” the voice said. I was told to immediately leave for Bombay. This was 18th Feb 1999. I along with my 6 month pregnant wife drove 420 kms to Mumbai. I had to take more than

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How to not marry a psychopath or a sociopath

Before you marry, you need to first tick off these 2 lists for sure. Your Prince Charming or Daddy’s princess might turn out to be a psychopath or a sociopath. The reason for writing this post is I just clearly understood the distinction between a psychopath, a sociopath and

Dating

Dating Advise

Now don’t you wish your grand mother or Grand father has given you some dating advise earlier in your life and you could have completely avoided some bad relationships. Here is some from the podcast I recently heard. These are the 6 filters to know what kind of person

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The 4 things everyone aspires for but cannot have it all.

Family Friends Sleep Money These first 3 things are tied to Money and time. The horrible diagram below will explain. Case 1 – If you have no time and no money. You have nada. You don’t have friends or family and your sleep is fucked up. Case 2 –

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Blame Yourself Always

You know this is the simplest rule to remember, but we all forget it. Let me explain We all depend on others. We cannot survive in this world on our own. Sometimes the people we trust let us down. They might be doing it to protect themselves, but your interests

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I figured out Why the single girl has so much energy.

I get tired all the time. I wake up tired when I don’t sleep well. I wake up tired when I have tummy ache. I wake up tired when I had too much to think. Single girls are feeling emancipated. The #metoo moment along with wide protest against rapes

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Relationships on Rent.

One of the biggest worry a man has is that if he ever runs out of money, his woman will leave him (or he will have to leave her). Being together is a costly exercise, while one works the other takes care of the social and other aspects of the

Jalgaon

My Bodyguard

I am not telling you the story of some Whitney Houston movie. This is my story. At the peak of my ego trip, someone suggested that I need to hire a bodyguard. Completely over estimating my importance in the world affairs I thought it was a good idea. I was

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The Economics of Relationships

I met this lady one day, I owed her money. She was not pushing me, she saw I was in pain. I told her about my problems about my recent relationship breakup. The worldly lady told me something which I find even today hard to digest. She told me that

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The world inside your head

She came, he saw , she conquered. There was something about her. The clothes she was wearing. They were of such good taste. The big necklace aroung her neck and her glowing bare skin. He could see that the length of her dress was of the right length. Atleast as per

Dating

Our Dream Valentine Date

We went on a dream date yesterday. Our date was as boring as I had always imagined. I dream our life as boring as possible. It includes all our dates also. I know if we keep having many more dream dates, our relationship would end in a matter of weeks

Childhood

Story on mental health

One day as I came home from school, I found my mother was sitting on the window ledge in our 3rd floor apartment block. She was pissed drunk. She was wearing a nightie. That day must have been the most embarrassing day of my life. The entire Goregaon East, now

Childhood

Deshpande Sir

For 5 long years I had only one tuition teacher. He would teach me everything from Maths to History. His name was Despande Sir. He was not a teacher by profession, he was a clerk in a bank. Before me he has taught my two elder sisters. He was passed

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My Attempt at "Rape - Role Play".

Dear Friends or Family Members Before you disown me or unfriend me, Please read the complete blogpost. Writing about sex is very difficult and writing about Rape is excruciating. I spent a couple of hours thinking whether I should handle such a topic. Some incidents in last couple of days

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Goregaon

The place where I grew up, a place where I held my dad’s finger, and we would go about walking the busy markets. I would absorb the sights and the sound, while people would almost give him a salute. I asked Dad, why do they salute you, he

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Rewiring of the Brain - End of Relationships

She was never on my mind, but she was all over my life. My day started with her and it would end with her. Right from the walks to all the talks, this was not love, but companionship. But companionship without love, how would it last? Is it convenience –

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I love you baby but face it, she's Madonna aka Long Distance Relationship

Everyone surely has one going for them; we cannot survive without an imaginary, fantastical long distance love affair. Can we? The long nights spent on the telephone, the sexy voice which touches your soul, the lies we made up were the lies we told ourselves to survive our boredom and