Why " HELP ME, HELP YOU" doesnt work!

energy works Sep 27, 2011

Everyday someone or the else asks you for help, sometimes they are very basic things, sometimes there may be very tangible efforts required.

I had a employee when I asked him for one favor, which falls outside his purview of work, the next day I will be asked approximately 3 favors in return. This kind of defeats the very altruistic purpose of helping someone or asking to be helped. As a consequence, I dread to ask anyone for help. 

“HELP” is the social currency of poor and middle class, the richer people can offer cash in return. If we were not helped by a relative/friend in our lives, you know we would be no-where. But sometimes people want to trade in more than what they can give in value. As you know there is no standard empirical formula to calculate the value of a favor done to you or you have carried one for anyone.

This causes me lot of stress!

Lets us “HELP” , let us only have only rich friends and relatives. Is it neccessary in life ’ That if you scratch my back, I will scratch your back” ? The old world works on this principle and as a consequence we have frustrated, repressed, not appreciated people. 

Lets face it, if we are not in a positon to “HELP” . Lets say a resounding “NO”, and if we want to help, let it be thrashing “YES”. 

If you like me, want such a place to exist, Make only rich or extremely poor relatives/freinds/aquaintances because as soon as you find someone equal, our mind goes in to insecurity complex always playing the one upmanship game, which is not amusing. 

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